How can you tell when your baby wants to be awake and when he wants to go to bed?
Is he quiet when he sleeps?
Does he make little noises?
Do the noises mean he wants to get up or will he go back to sleep?
How can you tell when he is ready to get up?
Your baby eats and sleeps best if you do what he wants.
Here are your baby’s sleep and awake states and what to do when he is in each state.
QUIET SLEEP
He lies still and breathes deeply and evenly.
What to do
ACTIVE SLEEP
He moves around, makes sounds, breathes fast or slowly.
What to do
Wait to see what happens. He might wake up, or he might go back to quiet sleep again.
DROWSY AFTER SLEEPING
His eyes are open, but he looks sleepy. He fusses a little.
What to do
WIDE AWAKE AND CALM
His eyes are wide open, he looks bright and feels relaxed.
What to do
Feed him. He will eat best when he is awake and calm. While you feed, help him stay awake and calm. Look at him. Talk to him and stroke him in a way he likes. After you feed, talk and play a while. Give him something he likes to look at.
UPSET AND FUSSY
He feels stiff and looks unhappy.
What to do
Comfort him. Help him calm down. Feed him if he wants to eat. He may be so stirred up or tired that he has to fuss himself to sleep. You are learning. Next time feed him when he is calm and alert. Put him down to sleep when he is drowsy.
DROWSY AFTER EATING AND PLAYING
He looks sleepy and is relaxed.